Raffy and Charm

Invite you to share with us the most momentous day as we exchange our marriage vows.


Saturday, September 5, 2026 

at 1:00 in the afternoon.

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Our Love  Story

From extraordinary friendship to lifetime marriage. 

finer DETAILS

Dress Code

Female Principal Sponsor: wearing champagne or mocha floor-length gowns

Ø  Male Principal Sponsor: wearing beige barong and black pants

Bridesmaids: wearing brown and deep mocha long dresses with tulle.

Groomsmen: wearing beige barong and black pants

Female guests: cocktail, midi dress, or long gown in neutral shades of chocolate brown, beige, sage green, dusty pink and old rose

Male guests: barong and black slacks.

Strictly formal. 

No WHITE or BLACK clothing.

Snap and Share

Capture every special moment, whether candid, sweet, or wacky!


Don’t forget to tag us and use our wedding hashtags to share the love.


We can’t wait to see your photos! 📸💖


#RAFFYlyEverAfterWithCHARM

Gift Guide

With all the blessings that God poured out on us we cannot ask for more. Your presence and prayers are all we request. But should you still believe that a gift is worth giving, monetary gifts for our future would be much appreciated.

The Reminders

Be on time • Finish the event • Enjoy and have fun

The Venue

Ceremony

St. John Marie Vianney Parish - Silang, Cavite

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Reception

Fruella’s Events Venue

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Ceremony

St. John Marie Vianney Parish - Silang, Cavite

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The Entourage

Parents of the Groom

REYNALDO GOAN

MA. LUZ GOAN

Parents of the Bride

HILARIO VILLANUEVA

MARIA DOLORES MATEO

Principal Sponsors

DR. JORGE MEDINA

MR. GUILLERMO MATEO

MR. RODRIGO MATEO

MR. DELFIN BALUYOT

MR. ARVIN SIN

MRS. DIVINA ARABIA

MRS. EVELYN MEDINA

MRS. CECILIA MATEO

MRS. SUSAN MATEO

MRS JOSEFINA BALUYOT

MRS. ROSELL SIN

MRS. MERLINA NIXON

MS. ELIZABETH MATEO

Best Man

Lucas Raphael V. Goan


Best Woman

Geraldine G. Gauna

Maid of Honor

Seychelle Anne M. Villanueva

Christiana Sky V. Goan

Secondary Sponsors

Candle

RALPH KIERULF

DRIGNA KIERULF

Veil

RS MATEO

RHOSAN MATEO

Cord
ALAIN MATEO

CATHERINE MATEO

Groomsmen

LOUIE ALFRED PAGTAKHAN

RONALD RYAN GOAN

KENT LEVI SOLIS

JAN RAPHAEL SISON

Bridesmaids

JOANNE PAGTAKHAN

Ana Katrina Torres

Jeanne Christine Solis

REGINE PONTERES

ADA JESCA SALISBURY

Ring Bearer

Silas Santiago Goan

Coin Bearer

Ezequiel Corvera

Bible Bearer
RAPHAEL ANDREV BOMBETA

Flower Girls
ROSE GAUNA

ANALYN DEL PILAR

YANELLE CAYABYAB

Your Questions Answered

  • RSVP

    As much as we would love to accommodate all our friends and family, we have a limited number of guests. Please understand that this event is strictly by invitation only. Guests not found on the guest list provided will not be allowed to enter. 



    The favor of a reply is required on or before August 5, 2026.

  • Is there parking space available for my car?

    Yes, there is parking available for everyone at the venue. However, please take note that it is first come, first served basis, so you might not want to be late.

  • I said "NO" to the RSVP but I had a change of plans-I can attend now! What should I do?

    • Please check with us first. Unfortunately, we have a strict guest list.


    • Kindly inform us if your schedule clears up, so we can try to accommodate you.


    • If seats become available, we will let you know as soon as possible.


    • Please do not attend unannounced, as we may not have any available seats for you.

  • When is the appropriate time to leave?

    This event took us months to plan, and we want to celebrate it with the people that are very dear to our hearts. We want you to have fun! Celebrate with us until the end of the program!

  • How can I help the couple have a great time during their wedding?

    • Pray with us for favorable weather and the continuous blessings of our Lord as we enter this new chapter of our lives as husband and wife.
    • RSVP as soon as your schedule is cleared.
    • Dress appropriately and follow our wedding motif.
    • Be on time.
    • Follow the seating arrangement in the reception.
    • Stay until the end of the program.
    • Join the activities and enjoy!

  • May I invite a "PLUS ONE" to the event?

    As much as we would love to accommodate all our friends and family, we have a limited number of guests.


    Please understand that this event is strictly by invitation only. Kindly check our invitation to know the number of seats allotted for you. Guests not found on the guest list provided will not be allowed to enter.

  • What if I RSVP'd but cannot attend?

    We would love to have you at our wedding, but we understand that there are circumstances beyond our control. However, please let us know as soon as possible so we can reallocate your seat/s.

  • Can I sit anywhere at the reception?

    Please don't. It took us a lot of effort and discussion to finish the seating arrangement, which is planned for everyone's convenience and preference, but there is no need to worry! You'll surely be seated with your friends or people that you have same interest with.


    Our coordinators will gladly assist you in finding your designated seat after registration. Feel free to ask them for assistance and they will gladly help you.

  • Am I allowed to take pictures and/or videos during the ceremony?

    We request everyone to keep the ceremony camera-free. While our I Do’s are unplugged, our reception is not and definitely as a couple who loves pictures, you’ll get tons of options to take your pictures. We prepared for this event wholeheartedly.

  • Do we really need to RSVP? We already said "YES" to the couple.

    Yes, please. We will be needing your formal RSVP to consolidate guest details and finalize the headcount for catering and seating purposes.

  • Hotel suggestions if you want to check in:

    • Via Appia Tagaytay
    • Hotel Casiana Tagayatay
    • Summit Ridge Hotel Tagaytay
    • SMDC Winds Tagaytay

RSVP

We’re excited to celebrate this special day with our dearest family and friends!


Please let us know if you can join us by

 August 5, 2026. Thank you!

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